Fact #1: Most men are still in love with their wives when they cheat.
Men who cheat haven't fallen out of love; they've become unsatisfied
with the current state of it. "Cheating usually occurs in the phase of
companionate love, when couples begin to settle down, have kids and
solidify the life being built together," says clinical psychologist
Andra Brosh, PhD. While they're fulfilled in some areas, like being a
provider, the romance may be missing. "We more often think of women
complaining about a lack of romance, but men feel it, too," says Dr.
Brosh. "They frequently suffer in silence, believing they can't get what
they want from their spouses." To avoid this in your marriage, plan
nights out together,
set aside time for sex and discuss hopes and dreams--not just workdays and your son's last soccer game.
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